I have to have a mini rant.
I see all these things about how there is no such thing as a slut.
Which might I say I disagree with, because if you have had sex with so many people that it doesn’t matter to you any more you’ve lost self respect, and I think that makes you a slut.
Though I just saw something that said ‘I don’t smoke, I don’t drink, I am going to finish college I am a virgin, I won’t loose self respect and be a slut just to fit in.’
And that, that kind of pissed me off, I was a smoker for years, I’m not a virgin, and I’ve been so drunk that I cried watching House. Does that make me a slut? I am almost twenty years old, and I can count the people that have seen me naked, not even that I’ve actually had sex with, on one hand. Does that make me a slut? I think not.
My point here is, I don’t think there is a set number, and even if there were who is to set the number? The Christians? God? Men? No. Just because someone might steal your boyfriend/or girlfriend, lets not be homophobic, affection, doesn’t make them a slut. It’s about the way that a girl conducts herself. And if she’s not running through a different man every night, bragging about it, flashing her tits every chance she gets, letting men use her with no regard, who the fuck are you to call her a slut?
And on a last note, even if she is a slut, it’s her life, not yours, why does it matter to you unless you’re fucking her?